Dreamers spend a lot of time imagining success, and this is a wonderful thing to do.
But Successful People use their dreams to motivate themselves to take action.
The big difference in order to achieve success in life is taking action.
Please continue to dream, but then turn your dreams into a plan of action that you implement one step at a time.
You are a special person with unique talents. Have you developed the skills you need to manifest your talents? If not, you may be blocking yourself from experiencing a life lived on purpose.
You were born to realize your full potential. When you do this, you feel the passion of your purpose every day. Maybe you are just dreaming every day, because you haven’t developed the skills needed to manifest your talents. If this is true, it is time to give yourself the gift of developing your skills in areas you love.
What do you love to do? If you had no money pressures, what would you do every day of your life with great joy? Imagine what would be fulfilling, give yourself permission to pursue your dreams, and start on the path you have truly wanted to be on your whole life.
Believe in yourself, expect the best, and get it. Please don’t accept a life that is mediocre at best. You deserve to develop your talents and to live on purpose so you are filled with passion, love, hope and joy every day.
If you find yourself coming up with excuses why you cannot pursue your dreams, you are being stopped most probably by early conditioning. You may have been taught to focus on others, not yourself. Were you told that focusing on yourself is selfish?
If so, please be open to learning how to love yourself. Don’t let your past programming keep you stuck in a mediocre or miserable life. Learn how to love yourself now so you can remove negative programming or trauma and abuse by visiting my website:http://www.learnhowtoloveyourself.com/
The choice is yours to make now. No one else is in charge of your life.
Please reach out for help to support yourself in making new decisions that will move you forward on the road to success that you are truly dreaming about ...if you find yourself feeling stuck and unable to take action.
Don’t give up. Get help to take action if you need it, or put your plan together to ensure your success in love and life starting now.
Even if it takes awhile, you will be enjoying every step you take.
Dreaming and taking action are the keys to success.
I wish you much success.
With love and blessings,
Sandra Dawson, MA
Love and Relationship Coach
America’s Most Loving Relationship and Trauma Expert
http://www.learnhowtoloveyourself.com/
Friday, July 24, 2009
Saturday, July 4, 2009
Are Successful People More Patient Than You?
Since most people want huge results right now, I think this is an important question to answer for you.
Are you feeling frustrated because you continue to work hard, but your results are not paying off like you expect them to?
I believe your expectations may be unrealistic, however, and this is good news for you. It is good news, because reality is your friend and I will show you why.
Has someone told you that overnight success can truly result from the application of certain strategies? I believe they have left out the preparation that occurred before achieving their success, because instant success is always the result of preparation plus great marketing strategies that usually take months and even years to set up.
Most success stories I have read are full of failures and disappointments that had to have challenged those successful people to their core. You have probably heard that Thomas Edison failed at creating a light bulb that worked a hundred times or more before his final success. Thomas Edison is a great model of success for all of us, because he viewed his failures as learning experiences. Every failure taught him another way it wouldn’t work, and he kept going, but doing it differently the next time.
This is why reality is your friend. Learning from mistakes is reality. Everyone experiences setbacks, failures, and obstacles that must be overcome. You must believe you are 100% okay and move on like all successful people do.
So yes, I believe successful people have patience, but are they more patient than you? I don’t know. Only you will know when you finish reading my blog today.
Are You Willing to Keep Going?
I hope so and as you move forward, I want to encourage you to stop focusing on what’s not working. Simply use your disappointments as learning experiences, and keep going with your positive expectations, and new strategies.
If you find yourself stuck in negative beliefs like, “I’m not good enough, or something is wrong with me,” etc., you will need to learn how to love yourself and change these negative beliefs into positive beliefs. It will be critical to your success that you do not get weighed down by self-limiting beliefs that are actually all false. Let me convince you that these negative beliefs that are blocking your success in love and life are false. I used to have them myself, so I know how to get rid of them, and I know, first hand, how success can be achieved when they are replaced with self love and acceptance. Get my free Newsletter and learn how to love yourself by clicking here: http://www.learnhowtoloveyourself.com/.
Some people can be successful on their own, because they haven’t suffered abuse and trauma in their childhood. I needed alot of help and support and that may be true for you too.
If you are one of the lucky few who truly have sufficient self love right now, but still need some help to stop focusing on the negative, I recommend using a journal to record positive events that occur every day. I also think it is important to develop an attitude of gratitude. There are many things in your life right now that are wonderful and fulfilling. Let yourself feel your gratitude for these wonderful parts of your life today, and allow yourself to attract more.
Relax every day and meditate or pray. This calms you down and allows your mind to keep you on track with your goals, and it will get you in touch with your inner joy. That will be very motivating and it will help you to have the patience you need to achieve the success you are dreaming of.
Also, you may need to try something new, if the strategies you are employing are not working. More and more people these days don’t stay with a strategy long enough to determine it’s true value, so if you are bouncing around from one strategy to another, please slow down and put each one to a real test. Then if it doesn’t work, you learn from it, and move on.
The road to success is paved with disappointment and many obstacles for everyone. Please keep yourself on purpose, focus on your goals, and give them sufficient time to work. Get really good at removing obstacles to your success, so you can be taking actions that are moving you closer and closer to the succcess you are working so hard to achieve.
Successful people are patient. Are you being patient enough with yourself? If you need some feedback to help you decide if you are being patient enough with yourself, please feel free to contact me with any questions you may have. You can contact me by clicking here: http://www.adviceforloverelationships.com/Contact_Sandra.html
Believe in yourself. Expect the best. And get it! I believe in you, and I know you can do it. I did it, and I can show you how and I started with nothing.
With love and blessings,
Sandra Dawson, MA
Your Success Coach
America's Most Loving Relationship and Trauma Expert
INSTITUTE FOR SELF LOVE
631 228 4361
Are you feeling frustrated because you continue to work hard, but your results are not paying off like you expect them to?
I believe your expectations may be unrealistic, however, and this is good news for you. It is good news, because reality is your friend and I will show you why.
Has someone told you that overnight success can truly result from the application of certain strategies? I believe they have left out the preparation that occurred before achieving their success, because instant success is always the result of preparation plus great marketing strategies that usually take months and even years to set up.
Most success stories I have read are full of failures and disappointments that had to have challenged those successful people to their core. You have probably heard that Thomas Edison failed at creating a light bulb that worked a hundred times or more before his final success. Thomas Edison is a great model of success for all of us, because he viewed his failures as learning experiences. Every failure taught him another way it wouldn’t work, and he kept going, but doing it differently the next time.
This is why reality is your friend. Learning from mistakes is reality. Everyone experiences setbacks, failures, and obstacles that must be overcome. You must believe you are 100% okay and move on like all successful people do.
So yes, I believe successful people have patience, but are they more patient than you? I don’t know. Only you will know when you finish reading my blog today.
Are You Willing to Keep Going?
I hope so and as you move forward, I want to encourage you to stop focusing on what’s not working. Simply use your disappointments as learning experiences, and keep going with your positive expectations, and new strategies.
If you find yourself stuck in negative beliefs like, “I’m not good enough, or something is wrong with me,” etc., you will need to learn how to love yourself and change these negative beliefs into positive beliefs. It will be critical to your success that you do not get weighed down by self-limiting beliefs that are actually all false. Let me convince you that these negative beliefs that are blocking your success in love and life are false. I used to have them myself, so I know how to get rid of them, and I know, first hand, how success can be achieved when they are replaced with self love and acceptance. Get my free Newsletter and learn how to love yourself by clicking here: http://www.learnhowtoloveyourself.com/.
Some people can be successful on their own, because they haven’t suffered abuse and trauma in their childhood. I needed alot of help and support and that may be true for you too.
If you are one of the lucky few who truly have sufficient self love right now, but still need some help to stop focusing on the negative, I recommend using a journal to record positive events that occur every day. I also think it is important to develop an attitude of gratitude. There are many things in your life right now that are wonderful and fulfilling. Let yourself feel your gratitude for these wonderful parts of your life today, and allow yourself to attract more.
Relax every day and meditate or pray. This calms you down and allows your mind to keep you on track with your goals, and it will get you in touch with your inner joy. That will be very motivating and it will help you to have the patience you need to achieve the success you are dreaming of.
Also, you may need to try something new, if the strategies you are employing are not working. More and more people these days don’t stay with a strategy long enough to determine it’s true value, so if you are bouncing around from one strategy to another, please slow down and put each one to a real test. Then if it doesn’t work, you learn from it, and move on.
The road to success is paved with disappointment and many obstacles for everyone. Please keep yourself on purpose, focus on your goals, and give them sufficient time to work. Get really good at removing obstacles to your success, so you can be taking actions that are moving you closer and closer to the succcess you are working so hard to achieve.
Successful people are patient. Are you being patient enough with yourself? If you need some feedback to help you decide if you are being patient enough with yourself, please feel free to contact me with any questions you may have. You can contact me by clicking here: http://www.adviceforloverelationships.com/Contact_Sandra.html
Believe in yourself. Expect the best. And get it! I believe in you, and I know you can do it. I did it, and I can show you how and I started with nothing.
With love and blessings,
Sandra Dawson, MA
Your Success Coach
America's Most Loving Relationship and Trauma Expert
INSTITUTE FOR SELF LOVE
631 228 4361
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