The road to success is paved with great time management skills, because you can so easily stop moving in the right direction without some inner discipline.
Success in life depends upon setting specific goals, having a vision of your success, and breaking down your goals into action steps that you commit to taking.
So yes, success in life requires planning and working on your plan. What do you think is blocking you from planning and working on your plan? Your road to success is truly your plan, and you must be on the road each day. You need to have daily, weekly, or monthly goals in addition to yearly goals.
You need to work on one task at a time, and not let yourself get distracted from the success in life you will achieve by staying focused. I know staying focused can be a huge problem for many people. If staying focused is a problem for you, I think your nervous system is over activated. I would like you to learn more about trauma if this is true and you can go to my website for more information about trauma healing at:
http://www.LearnHowToLoveYourself.com
Just sign up for my Free eNewsletter and then click on "Trauma Healing Will Help You Love Yourself."
Another time management skill to develop is saying no when an interruption or request is made of you that doesn't fit in with your plan.
You do not have to get angry when you say no. Just politely let the person know you do not have time now to respond, and get back on your road to success.
It is also very helpful to keep your vision of success in front of you. Let yourself imagine what your life will look like, feel like and sound like when you achieve the success in life you are dreaming of having. You could create a dream board with pictures of your life when you follow the road to success you have mapped out for yourself.
A happy, healthy and fulfilling life is all about success. What is blocking you from using these excellent time management skills on your road to success? Please make a commitment to yourself to remove any blocks you are aware of. If you don't know what is blocking you, I can help you figure it out. I am an expert problem solver and I had to remove many blocks from achieving success in my life that may be similar to yours.
Join my mailing list and get my Free weekly eNewsletter, "Love Yourself Now", and the 1st chapter of my eBook, "How to Fall Madly in Love with Yourself" also for Free when you sign up. Here's the link:
http://www.LearnHowToLoveYourself.com
With Love and Blessings,
Sandra Dawson, MA
Your Success Coach
America's Most Loving Relationship and Trauma Expert
Institute for Self Love
631 228 4361
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Thursday, June 25, 2009
"Keys to Success For Your Personal Development"
You're on the road to success, because you are searching for the answers to what is blocking you. Congratulations! I want to help you with my Keys to Success for Your Personal Development.
I know from my personal and professional experience that the biggest block to success in life is a lack of self love. Were you taught that it is selfish to love yourself? If so, you have alot of company, because past parenting practices have taught millions of human beings that loving yourself is selfish. It is not true, and you can undo your past programming and get on the road to success faster, by accepting the truth of this idea.
Happiness and success in life depend upon your ability to love yourself. Loving yourself means you know how to be self-nurturing and you are able to soothe yourself, so you can truly live and love happily ever after. You need to have some skills to transform your life, so here are my 8 Keys to Success for Your Personal Development.
These keys to success will help to keep you on track and to ensure your success.
1. Do Something Every Day
Congratulations! If you are reading this article, you have already started to do something for your personal development. I would highly recommend that you make a commitment to do something every day. If you are not sure what to do, please get my eBook and learn my 15 steps to fall madly in love with yourself. You will be able to identify something you can do every day that will ensure your success. Click here for information about my eBook that is fast becoming a best-seller:
http://www.LearnHowToLoveYourself.com/fallmadlyinlovewithyourself
2. Write In a Journal
This is a great way to keep track of your personal development. Write down what you want to achieve. Write down how you are feeling, and why you think you are feeling that way. Look for patterns. This will help you to continually identify personal development goals for yourself, and it will help you to acess what you are thinking and feeling in your unconscious.
Keep your journal close by and make new entries and read past entries on a regular basis.
If you would like a system to follow to help you keep your journal, you can join my mailing list and get the 1st Chapter of my ebook, "How to Fall Madly in Love with Yourself," for free and my Free weekly eNewsletter,
"Love Yourself Now" by clicking here:
http://www.LearnHowToLoveYourself.com
3. Learn From Other People
Become an observer of other people. Allow yourself to benefit from their successes and their mistakes. Other people have a great deal to teach you. Because I have made so many mistakes, I had a lot to learn about how to love myself. I am a great model of self-love now, and I will continue to share my story with you. You can join my mailing list, and get my Free weekly eNewsletter, "Love Yourself Now", by clicking here:
http://www.LearnHowToLoveYourself.com
4. Focus On Your Feelings
Recent research has shown that your ability to perceive, identify and manage your emotions is the basis of social and emotional capabilities that are predictive of success in love and life. If you truly want to succeed, you will need to develop your ability to know and understand your emotions. Knowing what you are feeling and using your feelings to guide your life are critical abilities to develop in order to ensure your success.
5. Imagine You Have Made a Decision
Whenever you have to make an important decision, and you aren't sure if it's the right one, imagine you have already made your decision. Then pay attention to how you feel. What are you feeling? See why feelings are crucial. You cannot judge your life accurately if you are not in touch with your feelings. The road to success is paved by the direction you take and the direction you take is dependent upon how your feelings are guiding you.
6. Think About Your Thoughts
Thinking about your thoughts is a way to help you manage your feelings. If someone cuts you off on the freeway and you think, "They have no right to cut me off," you are very likely to feel angry and out of control. If, instead, you think "people do stupid, impulsive things," you are more likely to take whatever action you need to, and to remain calm. Thinking about your thoughts in different situations can help you to make changes.
In fact, all change starts with awareness. If you over react in situations like this, you need to learn how to self-soothe. Success in life requires you to learn this skill, and it is a big part of learning how to love yourself.
7. Accept Some Weaknesses on Your Road to Success
All human beings have some weaknesses. We can be happy and have a balanced life without being great at everything. Focus on your strengths, and accept your weaknesses as part of being a human being. When you fall madly in love with yourself, you know what your strengths are, and it makes it much easier to accept your weaknesses. No human being is perfect, and no human being has to be. Give yourself a break, and learn how to fall madly in love with yourself.
8. Keep Growing
This may be a surprise to you, but on the road to success, there's no end to personal development. You can go on learning and changing for your whole life. If you give yourself the gift of learning and growing your whole life, you will be amazed at how happy and healthy you will remain, and what a beautiful legacy of success you will leave.
I am honored to be helping you on your road to success and I wish you much love.
Sandra Dawson, MA
Love and Relationship Coach
Institute for Self Love
America's Most Loving Relationship and Trauma Expert
631 228 4361
Get my Free eNewsletter and the 1st Chapter of my eBook for free:
http://www.learnhowtoloveyourself.com/
Join my Club:
http://www.LearnHowToLoveYourself.com/become-a-member
I know from my personal and professional experience that the biggest block to success in life is a lack of self love. Were you taught that it is selfish to love yourself? If so, you have alot of company, because past parenting practices have taught millions of human beings that loving yourself is selfish. It is not true, and you can undo your past programming and get on the road to success faster, by accepting the truth of this idea.
Happiness and success in life depend upon your ability to love yourself. Loving yourself means you know how to be self-nurturing and you are able to soothe yourself, so you can truly live and love happily ever after. You need to have some skills to transform your life, so here are my 8 Keys to Success for Your Personal Development.
These keys to success will help to keep you on track and to ensure your success.
1. Do Something Every Day
Congratulations! If you are reading this article, you have already started to do something for your personal development. I would highly recommend that you make a commitment to do something every day. If you are not sure what to do, please get my eBook and learn my 15 steps to fall madly in love with yourself. You will be able to identify something you can do every day that will ensure your success. Click here for information about my eBook that is fast becoming a best-seller:
http://www.LearnHowToLoveYourself.com/fallmadlyinlovewithyourself
2. Write In a Journal
This is a great way to keep track of your personal development. Write down what you want to achieve. Write down how you are feeling, and why you think you are feeling that way. Look for patterns. This will help you to continually identify personal development goals for yourself, and it will help you to acess what you are thinking and feeling in your unconscious.
Keep your journal close by and make new entries and read past entries on a regular basis.
If you would like a system to follow to help you keep your journal, you can join my mailing list and get the 1st Chapter of my ebook, "How to Fall Madly in Love with Yourself," for free and my Free weekly eNewsletter,
"Love Yourself Now" by clicking here:
http://www.LearnHowToLoveYourself.com
3. Learn From Other People
Become an observer of other people. Allow yourself to benefit from their successes and their mistakes. Other people have a great deal to teach you. Because I have made so many mistakes, I had a lot to learn about how to love myself. I am a great model of self-love now, and I will continue to share my story with you. You can join my mailing list, and get my Free weekly eNewsletter, "Love Yourself Now", by clicking here:
http://www.LearnHowToLoveYourself.com
4. Focus On Your Feelings
Recent research has shown that your ability to perceive, identify and manage your emotions is the basis of social and emotional capabilities that are predictive of success in love and life. If you truly want to succeed, you will need to develop your ability to know and understand your emotions. Knowing what you are feeling and using your feelings to guide your life are critical abilities to develop in order to ensure your success.
5. Imagine You Have Made a Decision
Whenever you have to make an important decision, and you aren't sure if it's the right one, imagine you have already made your decision. Then pay attention to how you feel. What are you feeling? See why feelings are crucial. You cannot judge your life accurately if you are not in touch with your feelings. The road to success is paved by the direction you take and the direction you take is dependent upon how your feelings are guiding you.
6. Think About Your Thoughts
Thinking about your thoughts is a way to help you manage your feelings. If someone cuts you off on the freeway and you think, "They have no right to cut me off," you are very likely to feel angry and out of control. If, instead, you think "people do stupid, impulsive things," you are more likely to take whatever action you need to, and to remain calm. Thinking about your thoughts in different situations can help you to make changes.
In fact, all change starts with awareness. If you over react in situations like this, you need to learn how to self-soothe. Success in life requires you to learn this skill, and it is a big part of learning how to love yourself.
7. Accept Some Weaknesses on Your Road to Success
All human beings have some weaknesses. We can be happy and have a balanced life without being great at everything. Focus on your strengths, and accept your weaknesses as part of being a human being. When you fall madly in love with yourself, you know what your strengths are, and it makes it much easier to accept your weaknesses. No human being is perfect, and no human being has to be. Give yourself a break, and learn how to fall madly in love with yourself.
8. Keep Growing
This may be a surprise to you, but on the road to success, there's no end to personal development. You can go on learning and changing for your whole life. If you give yourself the gift of learning and growing your whole life, you will be amazed at how happy and healthy you will remain, and what a beautiful legacy of success you will leave.
I am honored to be helping you on your road to success and I wish you much love.
Sandra Dawson, MA
Love and Relationship Coach
Institute for Self Love
America's Most Loving Relationship and Trauma Expert
631 228 4361
Get my Free eNewsletter and the 1st Chapter of my eBook for free:
http://www.learnhowtoloveyourself.com/
Join my Club:
http://www.LearnHowToLoveYourself.com/become-a-member
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Expect Success and You Will Get It
You know your beliefs are important for your success, so let's talk about creating the belief of expecting success. If you are overwhelmed by life right now, or you feel bored and tired, there is so much more that you can create for yourself.
Yes, you are in charge and you will need to create the success you dream of having, but it is not as difficult as you may think right now. You are blocking your success in some way, because you are destined to have success. You deserve to have the success in love and life that every human being deserves.
The secret ingredient to success is learning how to love yourself. When you do not love yourself, you do not value your needs, and make commitments to yourself to take care of your needs.
Here's a summary of your needs. You have physical needs. You have safety and security needs. You have belonging and acceptance needs. You have self esteem needs. And you have self-actualization needs.
Abraham Maslow created this list of needs, and he calls it the Hierarchy of Needs. It is so important for you to understand that meeting all of your needs is not a luxury for some people, but rather necessary for everyone if you want to have success. You can get one of the best explanations of the Hierarchy of Needs in my ebook, "How to Fall Madly in Love with Yourself."
When you love yourself, you will expect success, because you will be connected to your real self. Your real self wants to feel happy, fulfilled, and content with life. Only successful people feel happy, fulfilled and content with life.
So please learn how to expect success by learning how to love yourself and start now. For more information, please go to my website:
http://www.learnhowtoloveyourself.com/
With love and blessings,
Sandra Dawson, MA
America's Most Loving Relationship and Trauma Expert
Yes, you are in charge and you will need to create the success you dream of having, but it is not as difficult as you may think right now. You are blocking your success in some way, because you are destined to have success. You deserve to have the success in love and life that every human being deserves.
The secret ingredient to success is learning how to love yourself. When you do not love yourself, you do not value your needs, and make commitments to yourself to take care of your needs.
Here's a summary of your needs. You have physical needs. You have safety and security needs. You have belonging and acceptance needs. You have self esteem needs. And you have self-actualization needs.
Abraham Maslow created this list of needs, and he calls it the Hierarchy of Needs. It is so important for you to understand that meeting all of your needs is not a luxury for some people, but rather necessary for everyone if you want to have success. You can get one of the best explanations of the Hierarchy of Needs in my ebook, "How to Fall Madly in Love with Yourself."
When you love yourself, you will expect success, because you will be connected to your real self. Your real self wants to feel happy, fulfilled, and content with life. Only successful people feel happy, fulfilled and content with life.
So please learn how to expect success by learning how to love yourself and start now. For more information, please go to my website:
http://www.learnhowtoloveyourself.com/
With love and blessings,
Sandra Dawson, MA
America's Most Loving Relationship and Trauma Expert
Saturday, June 20, 2009
How to Make Money Doing What You Love to Do
When you truly love yourself, you make decisions about your work life based on your passion. Your passion is another word for what you love to do. The secret to success is doing what you love to do. You will spend about half of your life working, so please take some time now to choose to do what you love to do. When you do what you love to do, every day is full of joy and fulfillment. You experience much less stress and you feel happy and energized.
Success is life is truly a result of doing what you love to do, so take some time now to do the following exercise that I am suggesting for you to do.
Imagine for a moment if you had all the money you need, and you didn't have to work at all. What would you do with your time every day? Would you continue to work at the same job you have now? Would you want to work for a different boss or company? Would you want to change your career entirely? Would you want to go back to school and develop skills in an area you have always been interested in, but never pursued? Would you want to spend your days engaging in your favorite hobbies and interests? What would you want to do?
The road to success will take hard work, focus, and problem solving. All of these efforts are easier to do when you are doing what you love to do.
Do you know right now what you would love to do? If not, here is a simple exercise you can do to help you to start identifying your passions. Recall your childhood and write down all the things that you loved to do, including the ones you were not able to do for whatever reason. Also recall all the compliments you have received from your childhood all the way up to, today. And finally, recall all awards and activities you excelled in. You will learn what your passions are from doing these exercises, and you will ensure your success in life as well.
I want to help you to awaken your successful self, so you too can be successful and meet your safety and security needs, which means you are making more than enough money to live a comfortable life.
When you are taking care of your safety and security needs doing something you love to do, you are loving yourself, and you will feel so good when you finally choose to take care of yourself in this very healthy way. Each step you take on your road to success will support your needs and create a comfortable life for you.
In addition, you will dramatically reduce stress in your life. You willl make friends with similar passions. You will feel like you belong. You will wake up refeshed and excited every day to tackle your to-do list. You will feel happy and content. And the work you'll need to do, to have success in life, is worth every bit of effort you decide to put into it.
Please let me help you to discover your purpose and awaken your successful self. Doing what you love to do isn't a luxury for some people. It is a need for everyone. You were born to live on purpose, not to struggle every day at a job you hate or feel bored doing.
You can get more information about discovering your life's purpose by clicking here:
http://www.LearnHowToLoveYourself.com/yourlifespurpose
You can manifest your passion working for the right company, or you can start your own business. You get to decide what makes the most sense for you. I can help you make that decision if you are feeling confused. If you are stuck in childhood programming that isn't even letting you identify your passions, I can help you identify what you truly love to do.
It's time to awaken your successful self so you can realize your dreams and live and love happily every after. The first step I would recommend that you take, is to join my mailing list and receive my free eNewsletter, "Love Yourself Now", my free Special Report, "Why You Need to Like and Love Yourself", and the first chapter of my eBook, "How to Fall Madly in Love with Yourself." Give yourself the gift of self-love and discover your life's purpose starting now for free. Start loving yourself 100% by clicking here:
http://www.learnhowtoloveyourself.com
With love and blessings,
Sandra Dawson, MA
Institute for Self-Love
Love and Relationship Coach
America's Most Loving Relationship & Trauma Expert
631 228 4361
Success is life is truly a result of doing what you love to do, so take some time now to do the following exercise that I am suggesting for you to do.
Imagine for a moment if you had all the money you need, and you didn't have to work at all. What would you do with your time every day? Would you continue to work at the same job you have now? Would you want to work for a different boss or company? Would you want to change your career entirely? Would you want to go back to school and develop skills in an area you have always been interested in, but never pursued? Would you want to spend your days engaging in your favorite hobbies and interests? What would you want to do?
The road to success will take hard work, focus, and problem solving. All of these efforts are easier to do when you are doing what you love to do.
Do you know right now what you would love to do? If not, here is a simple exercise you can do to help you to start identifying your passions. Recall your childhood and write down all the things that you loved to do, including the ones you were not able to do for whatever reason. Also recall all the compliments you have received from your childhood all the way up to, today. And finally, recall all awards and activities you excelled in. You will learn what your passions are from doing these exercises, and you will ensure your success in life as well.
I want to help you to awaken your successful self, so you too can be successful and meet your safety and security needs, which means you are making more than enough money to live a comfortable life.
When you are taking care of your safety and security needs doing something you love to do, you are loving yourself, and you will feel so good when you finally choose to take care of yourself in this very healthy way. Each step you take on your road to success will support your needs and create a comfortable life for you.
In addition, you will dramatically reduce stress in your life. You willl make friends with similar passions. You will feel like you belong. You will wake up refeshed and excited every day to tackle your to-do list. You will feel happy and content. And the work you'll need to do, to have success in life, is worth every bit of effort you decide to put into it.
Please let me help you to discover your purpose and awaken your successful self. Doing what you love to do isn't a luxury for some people. It is a need for everyone. You were born to live on purpose, not to struggle every day at a job you hate or feel bored doing.
You can get more information about discovering your life's purpose by clicking here:
http://www.LearnHowToLoveYourself.com/yourlifespurpose
You can manifest your passion working for the right company, or you can start your own business. You get to decide what makes the most sense for you. I can help you make that decision if you are feeling confused. If you are stuck in childhood programming that isn't even letting you identify your passions, I can help you identify what you truly love to do.
It's time to awaken your successful self so you can realize your dreams and live and love happily every after. The first step I would recommend that you take, is to join my mailing list and receive my free eNewsletter, "Love Yourself Now", my free Special Report, "Why You Need to Like and Love Yourself", and the first chapter of my eBook, "How to Fall Madly in Love with Yourself." Give yourself the gift of self-love and discover your life's purpose starting now for free. Start loving yourself 100% by clicking here:
http://www.learnhowtoloveyourself.com
With love and blessings,
Sandra Dawson, MA
Institute for Self-Love
Love and Relationship Coach
America's Most Loving Relationship & Trauma Expert
631 228 4361
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